Have you ever asked, "Why?". Why is my life not what I want it to be? Why do my dreams not work out as I would have them? Why, why, why.

Instead of asking why, change the question to "how".

How, is an infinitely more fruitful path to walk. When you walk in "How" you put action to work.

The why of things is important to understand, but at some point our fixation on "Why me?" gets in the way of us living our lives. Try instead asking, "How can I?".

I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.